Leaving your family and moving away for college is naturally an emotional event. No matter what experiences or opportunities you have ever embarked upon, going away for college is an entirely new ballgame. I can attest to that. Leaving to go to Iowa State was a sad ordeal for me, despite having flown across the U.S. to California when I was only 15 and flowing across the world to Germany at 17. I felt like I could not feel sad or nervous or anxious because I have already experienced so much! But honestly - every experience is a new and different experience, and it is okay to feel emotional during each one.
There is no right or wrong way to feel. Personally, I hate feeling emotions, and I try to keep them to myself until I can no longer do so. However, preparing to leave for college taught me or simply reaffirmed many lessons: 1) crying is honestly good for the soul; it's freeing, 2) missing your friends, family, and hometown is warranted; you are leaving people and places that you know and are completely at ease with to go to a new place and meet new people, and 3) feeling emotional does not mean that you have any regrets or are afraid; it can just mean that you are a normal person who has feelings, but is nevertheless excited for the future.
It has taken me a bit of time to come to terms with moving away from Michigan and my family; however, I have no regrets for choosing a college out-of-state. I love Iowa State University, and I am excited for all of the possibilities that I have here! You, too, should not have any regrets. Growing up and moving away (even if it's only an hour from home) is a big deal and a stepping stone in life. No prior experience that you may have had (studying abroad or going to camp or going on vacation without your family) should stop you from feeling the way that you do. If you do not feel sad or anxious or nervous, great! If you do, great! Nobody is the same. We all experience and come to conclusions differently.
But I want to let you know that it's okay. Cry, smile, laugh, rant. Do you.
Michigan, oh Michigan, how I love thee. As I get closer and closer to moving away from my home state, my love for it continues to grow. Once upon a time, if you would have asked me where I would prefer to live, my answer would've been, "Anywhere but Michigan." But now my answer would completely change. The mitten state is not only where I was born and raised, it is also where I have learned more about myself and my history, where I have met some of the greatest people, and where I will always have roots. This state is beautiful. We have The Great Lakes, Mackinaw Island, the city that embodies Christmas year round, and delicious cherries!
Yes, Michigan's weather is confusing (what do you want? two or four seasons, man, make up your mind already!). Yes, there are things about Michigan that I'd change if I could. But there is nothing that makes me happier than saying that I am a Michigander (and better yet, a Detroiter). I'll say it loud and proud.
There are a lot of itineraries floating around when it comes to visiting cities in Northern Michigan and the Upper Peninsula (UP). You'll find some for Munising, Grand Rapids, Mackinaw, and Houghton. I highly recommend that you check those cities out; you'll find amazing waterfalls, historical sites, camping sites, lighthouses, and more. It's a real sight to see. But there is another side of the state that is commonly forgotten about when writing about places to visit during a trip to Michigan (unless you're a huge sports fan). I'm talking about cities like Detroit, Ann Arbor, Dearborn, Royal Oak, Farmington, Frankenmuth, and Lansing. So, because of the lack of guides for places such as these, I figured I would share with you all where I would take you if you were to visit Michigan. Here's my guide for Detroit, which was named #9 on the New York Times' list of places to visit in 2017. (Watch out for future guides for Metro Detroit cities!)
Detroit Riverwalk
I would take you to the Riverwalk in Downtown Detroit. It provides the perfect view of Windsor, Ontario; during the summer months, you will see a carnival, fireworks at times, and a beautiful skyline, which is pretty nice. I mean, how many other places in America can you see what's happening over in Canada while still in the US? Very few. Aside from the gorgeous view of Canada and the Detroit River, there are tons of shops, restaurants, bars, and museums nearby. The Renaissance Center (General Motor's headquarter) is also right behind the boardwalk, so it's very convenient if you have to use the restroom, are hungry (there is an entire food court available as well as some more expensive dining choices), or want to meet with Santa during the holiday season.
There are also a ton of festivals and events going on at the Riverwalk. It's really fun! There is always live music, the Detroit Princess to ride, water jetting out of the sidewalk, sometimes booths (like during a culture festival), and during RiverDays, there are boats to climb on, carnival rides, fireworks, and Husky dogs (Winter Blast). Depending on what time of year it is, Downtown Detroit provides an abundance of activities to participate in. So, if you are planning on coming to Michigan, do some research and take your pick!
Mexican Town
I love Mexican Town! This area is full of delicious food and an entirely different culture than the one found primarily in Detroit and its metropolitan areas. The part that I'd like to dwell on is the food, though. Trust. Me. If you come to Michigan, please do yourself a favor and visit Mexican Town. When you go there, I highly recommend Xochimilco as your first restaurant to eat at. It is my favorite restaurant, and I am putting it against all other restaurants, whether it's American, Chinese, Italian, or Greek. I highly recommend that you eat a bunch of their free chips and spicy salsa, and then buy the beef burritos with cheese on top and double rice. As for drinks, because I am a minor I stick to the Virgin Strawberry Daiquiri, which I absolutely love.
After you leave Xochimilco, make your way down one block (by foot) and taste your way through La Gloria Bakery. They have delicious bread and little treats that you do not want to miss out on. Yum. Then, and I apologize for having you walk so much, walk back down a block and to the antique shop next to Xochi's (Xochi's Mexican Imports). GO IN THERE. You will be able to find some really cute and unique Mexican antiques.
Now - and this is if you would like the genuine Mexican and not Americanized food that Mexican Town can provide - drive to Mexican Town bakery on Vernor's Hwy (a street over from Xochi's) and eat one of their sweets. You'll thank me. I ordered my cake from them for my 16th birthday, and I honestly had never had a cake so delicious. And if you get hungry again, try one of the most authentic and delicious Mexican restaurants down there: Taqueria El Rey. Their chicken tacos are a God-send! Plus, their tacos start at only $1.50 (corn shell - highly recommended over flour); however, they are cash-only!
Greek Town
While you are here, you definitely need to go to Astoria Pastry Shop (also available in Royal Oak, but this one is the first and best) and Pizza Papalis. They are both on the same block, so it'll be really easy to hop from one to the other (NO EXCUSES). The best order is probably Pizza Papalis and then Astoria's because the latter is a desert shop. At Pizza Papalis, I always order their lasagna with extra cheese and sauce; my sister orders their pizza, which, I cannot deny, is mouthwateringly delicious.
After you leave Pizza Papalis, head on over to your right and into the doors of Astoria, a Michigan-based pastry shop. They sell treats like Baklava, Macaroons, Danishes, Cupcakes, Cannolis, and Cookies. (Menu- note that not everything is available) Whenever I go, I head straight towards the Nutella Macaroons. Oh god. Imagine taking a bite and having your eyes roll to the back of your head from the savory taste. I'm telling you, buy that darn macaroon. You can thank me later.
The DeQuindre Cut
If you are into photography like me, then this will be your urban heaven! The DeQuindre Cut is a 1.15-mile area that is popular among photographers in the city. There are walls full of graffiti, bicycle paths, and space for the casual jogger/pedestrian. You will also find little work-out areas throughout the cut as well as some lovely greenery.
Prioritizing and keeping myself focused and on track used to be one of the most challenging things for me to do. I would get distracted by social media, television, blogs, music, and pretty much anything else. But sometime over the last two years, something in me changed. I began to organize my tasks and schedule better; I began to keep track of the most important dates and events. Instead of feeling like every little thing was attacking me at once, I began to feel like my life was in order.
Obviously, in order for all of this to happen, I had to make some changes in my life and daily schedule. I started to implement activities and organization tactics to aid me in staying organized. Below, I am sharing some of the best ways that I have prioritized certain happenings in my life and stayed focused. What are some of the best ways that you keep your life in order?
Use A Calendar
While I am more into having a calendar that is easily accessible on all of my technology, I cannot deny the great pleasure of physical calendars. I used one while I was in Germany, and I recently purchased a new one from Five Below that I am super excited to use during the school year! But since I am only now getting into using a physical calendar, let me focus on what I am a pro at using: online and mobile calendars! One of the first ones that I have ever loved was Sunrise.It was easy to integrate my Google, iTunes, and any additional accounts into one, large calendar. All of my events, deadlines, and reminders were able to sync up. One of the main attractions to this calendar was the fact that I could sync this one calendar across my Windows laptop, iPad Mini, and Android smartphone.
That attraction was, however, lost with my calendar update toSolCalendar, which is only available on android devices. Not all is lost, though! The newest calendar that I use allows me to use cute marks (from a plane to food to an A+ for school to a simple highlight) as well as color-coding for any and all events or to-dos. You can also invite others to your event as well as state whether you are available, maybe available, or not available for a certain time-frame.
In my calendar, I plan blog posts, add important information (for example, flight itineraries), and make note of tests, assignments, and upcoming breaks. . I like to have a full calendar as it makes me feel as if I am organized and know what's happening in my life.
If you are more interested in a desktop calendar, then you should download **Rainlendar. It is perfect! I actually used this religiously before I downloaded Sunrise. I still do use it, but not as frequently because it's purely desktop and I prefer one that syncs across all of my electronics. It allows for customization of your calendar as well as color coding, icons, and to-do lists!
Use a To-Do List
This is a recent addition to my organization schedule. I categorize items into Home, School, and Blog. That helps keep me more organized as everything is under their respective categories, so I know what needs to get done and for what. On those to-do lists, I add quite a bit at once (with their due dates scheduled and any additional notes), so that once I see the scratch of completion, I feel much more accomplished. (Yes! I wasn't such a lazy bum today! *fist pump*)
Schedule Posts
If you are a blogger, then you most likely understand how much time and effort it takes to write a blog post. Not multiple blog posts - just one. Yeah; it is insane. But since I do love blogging, that is just one sacrifice I have to make. Nevertheless, I can still try to make my blog preparation more efficient and be time conscious. In order to do that, I use my spare time (usually during the weekend I have hours to kill) and knock out some posts. If I realize that I do not have "spare time," I then try my best to shuffle my schedule around and schedule in time for blog things. By scheduling posts for the upcoming week (and sometimes two), I feel more organized and like I have my life on a smooth road to success. A happy blog is a happy me, right? Right? *nudges with an awkward grin*
Do The Smaller Tasks First
This goes hand-and-hand with my to-do list. I like to complete the smaller, therefore easier, tasks first. One, this allows me to quickly get them out of the way. And two, once I an finished with them, the scratch of completion motivates me to continue handling business. If I can get some of the minuscule tasks over and done with, then when it comes time to complete the larger tasks, my list will not make me feel as if I got absolutely nothing done that day.
Take Mini-Breaks
Although taking breaks every ten minutes will hardly allow you to complete tasks, a fifteen minute break every hour and a half is decent. (Or simply after you finish an entire task, if it doesn't take up that much time.) It allows you time to relax and to not stress out. I know that once I get into a task, project, or assignment, I do not want to quit until I am finished. Sometimes that is fine! Other times, it stresses me out so badly that I end up quitting for the rest of the day. What's the use of that? It does not allow progress to get done, which means I'll be stuck doing it again the next day. Nein danke. So, what I do is give myself tiny breaks to grab a snack, send a few text messages, check social media, or simply catch some brief zzzz's.
Get Rid of Distractions
Distractions are the vice of pretty much everyone. They can keep you from doing what is really important. My distractions are social media, good music, and books/blogs. To keep from being distracted by these things, I (1) tell myself that I can check social media during a break or that it will be my reward when I am finished with the task, (2) put on music that does not have any lyrics to it, and (3) don't start reading any books, which is how I can easily fall into the procrastination trap of "only one more chapter!" Whatever your distractions are, try to minimize them whenever you can! Trust me, your productivity will thank you!
Before I went to Stanford's Summer College in 2014, I never really had a roommate. But, I guess, that's only if you do not count the time my sister and I had to share a room when we were young. Unfortunately, my first roommate situation was not the best, but it also was not the worst. It was simply...okay. Which is fine! There is nothing wrong with not being best friends with your roommate. My experience this year (2016-2017), was pretty great, though! I loved my roommate. While we did have some issues, we were able to quickly work them out. Because I want you all to have as good of an experience as you can with sharing your dorm room with someone, I have some tips for how to get along with your roommate!
Roommates are a tricky thing. You will either get one that you love, one that you hate, or one that is simply "meh." Luckily, while at Stanford, I got one that I "liked." I do not absolutely adore her because, hey, we are all different. BUT, I was able to tolerate her enough to the point of actually having decent conversations. My roommate at Iowa State is one that I love. I hope that these eight tips help your year go by a lot smoother!
1. Talk to each other online, over the phone, or by e-mail before move-in day. Unless you have the disadvantage of not knowing who your roommate is beforehand (which is what happened to me the year that I went to Stanford), you should talk to your roommate before y'all meet face-to-face. Doing this will not only create a rapport with one another that'll hopefully make your actual meet day less awkward, but it will also allow you to get to know one another. Simple things such as introductions beforehand can make the world of a difference!
2. Create a roommate contract. This can include things such as what can and cannot be done between your designated study times. Anything from sexiling (kicking your roommate out to have sex) to times that the blinds can be open to when and how loud music can be played can be included. This contract will be the base for conflicts. Instead of fighting about whatever is bothering one roommate, you can just pull out the contract and point out specifically, "Well, here, we agreed on...yada yada yada."
Note: Be realistic.
3. Assign certain tasks to each other. For instance, a pair of my friends decided who would take out the trash and who would vacuum. It helps everyone feel as if they are doing something, and if that something does not get done, it is not a debate about who was supposed to do what. Feel free to add the task assignments to the contract! However, please realize that sometimes, time is limited and certain tasks may be pushed back by a day or so. (If more, feel free to bring it up.)
4. Be considerate. I tend to listen to my music loudly, which can easily be heard even when I am wearing earphones. At night, I really do try to turn my music down so that I cannot hear the music from my earphones when I have it out of my ear. I try to be considerate (although it slowly kills me, haha). If my music is still too loud (which it might be some days, oops), then I have no problem with my roommate asking me to turn it down a bit. I appreciate the open communication! Talking about things and being considerate is a major rule for when you have a roommate.
5. Do not touch or take what is not yours unless it is offered or decided upon. This includes food and clothing! Always, always ask.
6. Be mindful of each other's schedules. This helps to eliminate any problems with friends coming over, music, studying, etc. I know that my roommate at Stanford studied a lot throughout the week, so I never invited my friends into my dorm room then. And my roommate was not obnoxiously loud when she returned from being out at night because I tended to be trying to sleep. Now, at Iowa State, we pretty much know one another's schedules, so the morning time isn't a problem. We always ask about having company over, so that pretty much eliminates any problems with having people over at night.
7. Communicate! There is nothing more awkward than having to live with someone, yet never speaking to them. Conversations help. Joke, laugh, enjoy! You'll be living with that person for a year; you want to feel comfortable in your room, not like you cannot breathe. I have friends who never talk to their roommate, which I find to be unfortunate.
8. Invite each other places. Even if you two do not hang out with the same group of friends, if your roommate complains about being bored or something of that nature and you're going out, invite them! Even if they decline, it's better to know that you extended the offer. (Remember that you should only invite them if it is not a private event that is not open for others, or where it'd be super awkward for them to come.)
I write a lot of posts about photography for photographers. Today, this one goes out to you clients! After all, without you all, a lot of photographers would not exist. You all are the key part to photography businesses everywhere. So while we photographers have to worry about what gear we need to use or the perfect location or how we will edit photos, you all have something else to worry about: being the best you that you can be for a shoot. I understand how difficult that can be sometimes. Everyone wants to have the best hair and clothes, look and feel amazing, and bring their best to the shoot. But how can you always do that? Bad day or not, here are some tips that will help you bring your best self to the photo session!
1. Dress for the two Cs
Comfort and Confidence. Never go to a photo shoot without one. If you are uncomfortable or not confident in yourself, this will easily translate to the camera, which can make the shoot frustrating for both the photographer and yourself. After all, you will probably hear things like, "try to loosen up a little!" or "your smile looks forced!" a million times. If you love what you are wearing and you feel like a complete badass, then this will translate to the camera and make for a happy photographer and a happier you!
2. Bring inspiration shots
I always encourage my clients to send my inspiration shots so that I can get an idea of what they want out of the session. Of course, I will use my own creativity and lead the session with that {copying photos are not good!}; however, I will always take into account the client's desires. Inspiration shots can make sure that you and your photographer are on the same page. Never be afraid to speak up - you want to love your shots.
3. Eat before a session
The worst thing for everybody is being hangry (hungry + angry) during a photo shoot. As a model, you will be cranky, less willing to cooperate (or rushing the session), or possibly sick from hungriness if you do not eat. Do not stuff yourself before a session (this can knock your confidence as well as make you feel bloated), but please please please do eat.
4. Be honest with your photographer
Speak your mind with your photographer! If you are extremely self-conscious about one side of your face, your belly, or perhaps a scar that you have on a arm, explain this before you photo shoot. Believe it or not, photographers will be more than willing to make sure that you love your photos, and will do everything to pose you to combat your problems. Keep in mind that not all photographers are willing to do extreme Photoshop on their pictures, such as getting rid of wrinkles or making some pounds disappear (I am one who will not!), so ask up-front if you have any serious questions or concerns.
5. Plan your outfit(s) in advance.
There is nothing more frustrating and stressful than waking up on the day of a a photoshoot and realizing that you cannot find that one yellow shirt that you want to wear or your daughter's jeans have a big stain on them. Sometimes families like to coordinate what they'll wear as well, and wouldn't it be something if one person cannot find their aspired clothing. Prevent the panic and stress by planning and preparing your outfit at least one week in advance!
In the summer of 2014, I was a temporary undergraduate at Stanford University for 8-weeks. I took Interpersonal Relations (Sociology), Personality Psychology, Zumba, and Asana Yoga. For all of these courses, I earned 8 college credits. That was pretty impressive to do as a rising junior in high school. Not everybody gets the opportunity to earn college credit while in high school. I wish that it would be easier (and cheaper), but alas, it's not. But do not get disappointed if you haven't yet: it's one-hundred percent possible to do. My family could not afford to pay my summer college tuition, but I found a way to still go. Today, I am going to tell you how you can earn college credit (for cheap or free) while you are still in high school.
My Story
I learned about the Joyce Ivy Foundation from my counselor in my sophomore year of high school. She was very adamant about me applying to become a Joyce Ivy Scholar. The Joyce Ivy Foundation is a non-profit committed to the academic excellence and leadership development of young ladies from the Midwest (and some Southern states). They award the scholars who are accepted into the foundation scholarships to attend an Ivy League University during the summer.
During the winter, before the application was due, I was very pumped about applying. My best friend and I were both going to do it, and we were going to apply for 1) Emory in Georgia, 2) Barnard in New York, and 3) Stanford. That was the order, too. We wrote our papers, had our counselor review it and got our recommendations. But this was the point where I started to feel defeat before I even submitted anything. (Crazy, right?) I think it was the pressure of competition. Well, not true competition as in sports, but the competition of getting this well-known and respected award. When we had our counselor review our papers, hearing her praise my friend's paper and "meh" mine was very disappointing. I've never been one for constructive criticism. Over time, I have progressively gotten better (thank you Architecture class + reviews), but at that time, I felt shot down.
I kind of gave up on applying to the foundation after that. I was not motivated, and I figured if my counselor didn't like my paper, then there is no way that Joyce Ivy will. My mom kept motivating me to get back at it. She didn't want me to give up before I even applied. Now, I see what she was saying. You'll never know if you will get something if you don't even put in the effort to try. So, I eventually conceded and reviewed my paper. I revised my paper a little bit. I finally submitted the application.
About a month or so later (in March), I received the "Welcome + Congratulations" e-mail from Joyce Ivy Foundation. I was beyond ecstatic! But I still didn't know whether I was admitted to the university of my choice, which was Stanford. It was a wild ride trying to decide which university to apply to, but something in my heart told me to choose Stanford. Not only had I been begging my parents (for years) to take me to California, but I also knew about Stanford's Grade A reputation and heard about their gorgeous campus. (I now know about Emory and Barnard, but I hadn't at that point in time.)
It took Stanford a little bit into April (during Spring Break) to respond. There was a lot of communication and faxing certain documents (which was a hassle because I was in Tennessee on break at Westgate Resorts) on both ends. But after all of that was done, two days before my family and I left Tennessee, my dad got the e-mail about me being admitted to Stanford's Summer College. I also learned that I was awarded the other half of money to be able to attend the summer college. So, in the end, I was awarded two scholarships to attend Stanford, and the transportation was all-inclusive (Joyce Ivy also gave us $75 per week in spending money).
Do Your Research
There is nothing worse than someone who wants everything but refuses to put in the footwork. Getting things is not a walk in a park. You have to apply. You have to inquire. You have to be willing to lose just a little bit of sleep working on that essay. It's all a process. The first step of that process is finding out what the heck you want to do. Do you want to earn college credit? Study abroad? Go to a camp? Google is your best friend in this step. You can easily type in "summer college" or "earn college credit in high school." Find the program that you are most interested in. Read as much as possible about them. How much is the tuition? How long is the program? (Funny story: I did not know that Stanford was for 8-weeks when I applied. I found out at the last moment hahah.) Is it a residential program or a day program? Get the basics, and the next step will...well, it'll still be harder, but at least you'll know what you need.
Find Out Your Money Situation
When I say money situation, I mean are you going to be able to foot the bill or will you need a scholarship (or three) just to attend? Estimate how much money you'll need per week and see if it'll be feasible for your family. Joyce Ivy gave me $75/week, and my family chipped in $25/week to give me a total of $100/week. Now, let me tell you, that was chump change in California. Everything cost: the Caltrain, shopping bags (if you - like me - forgot your reusable bags at the dorm), JAMBA JUICE. Well, the latter was more of my addiction than a necessity, but hey, it is what it is.
And while you figure out the money situation, be honest with yourself. If you agree that $40 per week will be enough (which it might be; however, if it's your first time somewhere, then you might feel a little touristy and that's more money), then do not be angry if your parents say no to more.
Apply for the Program's Financial Aid
Applying to Stanford's financial aid program is what helped me go. If I had to rely only on Joyce Ivy for money, then I probably (like, 100%) would not have been able to go. To get aid, the program may require more financial information to be submitted and possibly one or two more essays.
Dual Enrollment
If you can, try dual enrollment during the school year, which is typically free. You can take interesting courses while getting college credit. However, do your research on this, too! Some colleges may not accept dual enrollment college credit if you take it on your high school's campus. Some colleges simply may not accept it at all. Regardless, taking dual enrollment will help you get a feel for certain courses and may introduce you to a path you may have never thought of before.
Most, if not all, university students will be starting classes in less than three weeks. THREE weeks. Once upon a time, moving into college was simply a dream. Alas, it's no longer only a dream; it's a reality. And with this reality comes a lot of additional responsibilities, such as learning how to be a functioning, independent person, buying a bunch of dorm stuff, and selling your soul to pay for books. But don't freak out! I know that it sounds pretty terrifying, but I can help you! I have some tips that just might let you sell only a body part or two for books instead.
1. Compare All of Your Books
Yes, this is the ultimate piece of advice that you most likely will hear from every Tom, Dick, and Harry, but it's only because it's legit! Do not buy books from your college's bookstore without first checking out competing prices. Not only will you most likely be robbed, but you will also miss out on great deals that might let you spend your money elsewhere (or simply save it for future necessities, if you're a smart cookie).
But how do I compare my books...?
Websites such as slugbooks.com, textsurf.com, chegg.com, and ecampus.com are great websites to compare books. The former two are literal comparison sites, which means that you are able to type in an ISBN (or multiple) and it'll compile all the competing sites into one chart for you. Ecampus allows you to compare manually by typing in the book name, author's name, or ISBN.
When you compare, use the exact ISBN of the textbook that your university gave to you. You do not want to risk getting the wrong book simply because you ordered it elsewhere. There are sometimes multiple editions and various versions. If you do find a cheaper textbook that is a different version but is cheaper than the others, e-mail your professor to see if it is okay.
Always pay attention to which price you are looking at - rent, buy, or used. The comparison sites will normally provide all that they can.
If a book is required new, you can still buy it elsewhere; HOWEVER, if a code a part of a textbook purchase, I recommend buying it from your university because you do not want to risk purchasing a used textbook and code and the code does not function or does not come all together. (This tip came from my advisor.)
2. Rent
I only rented one of my textbooks this semester, but that was because I did not want to pay over $100 for a book that could be rented for less than $35. (I actually rented it for $26, but with S&H and tax, it ended up around $32.) Nothing is wrong with renting. It is just like checking out a book at the library. It's really simple and can save you a bunch of cash!
Always keep up with the due date. You never want to miss a due date for a rental, just like you would not want to miss your due date at the library. Add the return date to your calendar
Most rentals can be kept for a trimester, semester, and sometimes an entire year. When you rent a book, they will always give you the return date (and if not exact, an estimate). Sometimes their semester is not equivalent to your university's semester, though, and if this is the case...
Feel free to extend your rental! Sometimes there is a fee, but most times, you are free to do this at no cost. I will have to do this for my rented book because it's return date is the 14th of December, but my semester isn't over until the 16th, and I am not sure when my final is.
Some rental places even allow renters to write/highlight in books. Cool, right?
3. Buy Used - It's Really No Big Deal
I am not too sure why some people are so against buying used. Used saves lives and pockets and wallets. I bought the majority of my books used. I mean, what are the odds that you are going to need or want to keep the book after the course ends? Slim to none! Certain books are recommended to keep (major-specific courses, but that's normally towards your third and fourth and sometimes fifth year).
"I need to write in my book, so I have to buy my own." Well, feel free to do that if you absolutely must. I understand that sometimes there is no way around it, like if it is a hands-on textbook; however, here's a little spoiler: some rentals/used books already have highlights and maybe some notes in them. (This is because people sell their books at the end!) Feel free to take your own, but don't be super obnoxious about it (as most people aren't).
"I do not want marks in my book!" Honestly, there will be used books that nobody has ever written in. Not all of them have highlights or notes or doodles. If you happen to receive one that is written in, ask the bookstore or wherever you purchase your textbooks from if they have another one with fewer markings. It can actually work. (Personal experience over here, y'all!)
4. Sell It Back
Once again - the majority of your courses will be a one-time deal and you will not need your textbooks anymore. Sell them back once you are finished! A quick tip is to sell it yourself to someone who may need it because you will almost, guaranteed, get a higher percentage back than if you were to sell it back to the bookstore. A returned $100 book could be bought back from the bookstore for $20, unfortunately. A this is typically non-negotiable.
I recommend checking out what the going rate for the book is and price accordingly so that you can be competitive and have a higher rate of selling.
Actually talk to future students who may be taking the course. A lot of students are looking for a nice break (which is practically anything cheaper than the given price by universities).
Photographing people and animals are two different ballgames. Not similar at all. Well, let me not completely cross out similarities. It's just that animals can be extremely difficult to take pictures of. Even children are easier to photograph (unless, of course, they get distracted easily; then they are just as difficult as animals). Nevertheless, I love the challenge of getting that photo. If you are willing to be patient and practice, photographing animals (pets, in particular) is extremely rewarding. In this article, I want to share with you all some tips for photographing your feline friends. I'll touch on photographing canines and wildlife in a separate post.
Cats are unique creatures. They seem to defy the laws of gravity; they are extremely stubborn and seemingly enjoy ignoring their humans (and making sure the humans know that they are being ignored); they also sleep a heck of a lot. But they are also unique in terms of looks and personality. Because of these of this, you need to prepare to photograph them. Here are some tips below that I've found works well for me:
1. Do not pose, pose, pose.
This is mostly because the cat won't let you. At all. So if you had any sort of idea about posing the cat you are seeking to photograph, get it out of your head. Cats tend to do the opposite of what we want, so if you try to pose them, they will get up and run around. Or simply away from you. The only time you should pose is if its human is holding him/her. Then, feel free to.
2. Have a box or a play area for them to crawl/hide in/behind.
You want the cat's personality to shine through, and that normally happens when they have toys to play with. What the cat might do is never for-sure, so you have to be prepared for everything. My cat, in particular, loves to run and drag balloons behind him, but he also enjoys crawling into his mini roll-around thing. You can get them active or away. And when you disturb their "away" place, you'll get interesting stares.
3. Have places/things that the cat can peek behind.
I love photos of cats peeking behind walls, blankets, or purses. Check out some of my favorites here. And if you are lucky enough (or simply learn how to play their game), you will be able to get photos of them pouncing out at you after. My cat loves to do that!
4. Have something noisy or with a unique sound to catch their attention.
If the cat is distracted, the best way to get its attention is to make some noise. I can easily distract my cat with a bag of treats {but don't tease!} or scratching my jacket. Figure out what that cat is tempted by and use it to your advantage! Do not tease the cat though, that is really important.
5. Be quick!
Cats, once again, I stress, get distracted very easily. They do not want to please the human. Unlike their canine counterparts, cats think that humans are there for them. Do not get me wrong, I love felines. I have one of my own. All I am saying is that they are extremely spoiled! To them, it's their way or the highway. So be very quick or else you might miss that good shot.
6. Be prepared to move.
If your cat is not sleeping, then they are most likely moving. And if they are moving, woah buddy, it will be hard to stop them. If you are familiar with cats, then you know how sporadic their energy bubbles can be. So be prepared to be a "stalker" or "paparazzi" for the session.
7. Get down.
Photographing a cat at its level gives you much better photos. The cat does not look dwarfed out; they will look their actual size. Or, if you can, get below eye-level with the cat. My cat has a playscape, so when he is on that, I try to snap photos above, which makes him look larger.
8. Do not use flash, if you can help it.
Try to photograph in natural light. That is your best friend, in all types of photography. Typically, when you photograph indoors, your ISO is super high. Natural light will help combat that! Make use of what you have and seriously try to avoid flash.
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